Self-love is essential to achieve what we want in life. Although you may not believe it, it is reflected in all aspects: family, money, work and, of course, the way others treat us. Self-love is, therefore, the definition we have of ourselves and, of course, I believe that it is one of the keys to success.
Sometimes we feel anxious and depressed and we don't even like to look at ourselves in the mirror, we lack the desire to live and do things. And then we see super happy people with wonderful lives and we think: But what have they done to feel that way? I tell you that I have been there, we all at some stage go through or will go through that, it is part of maturing and seeing things from a different perspective but we should never let ourselves be sold by negativity, it is difficult, of course, if nothing in life is easy and if you are already spent in that situation it is never too late to get out of that state, in the end it is something that makes you mentally strong.
Have you ever wondered what the importance of self-love is: An act of authenticity?
To start, I want to tell you that there is a great reality and that is that if you do not love and value yourself, in the end, how do you expect others to value you? Your mood and attitude will be externalized in the world around us. Remember that in the end, our life is a reflection of what is in our mind.
There are some people who think that self-love has to do with being selfish, however, it does not have to be that way. In reality, it is much deeper. It means having nice feelings towards ourselves, that we take care of ourselves and respect ourselves, that we treat ourselves and speak to ourselves with affection. It also implies being responsible for our actions.
When we do this, we connect with the kindest part of our being. As a result, we improve the relationship we have with ourselves and our environment, our self-esteem is strengthened.
We always have to remember that we have to be kind to ourselves. And whenever you start doing it, you will notice positive changes.
Birds can be difficult especially when you are in a frustrating situation and you feel like you are drowning in your problems and it is always good to think about how to get out of it.
About a year ago I listened to the book (since it's an audiobook) Stop Overthinking!
The truth is that it didn't seem too crazy to think about it, but the things you least expect are the ones that will surprise you the most. After listening to it, it made me reason and think in a more positive way, and I currently remember 4 very important things that they said that could help with self-love and how we can improve.
1. Choose those around you wisely.
I agree with this since I am a firm believer that the people we associate with greatly influence our mentality and the performance of our activities. It is much better to be surrounded by people who inspire you and encourage you in your growth. That is why it is good to have a group of healthy friends and be happy with bad or toxic people.
2. Recognize your achievements and celebrate your triumphs
When I read that phrase I just think. We as human beings tend to extend love and understanding to others. But what happens if we also direct that attention to ourselves? It would be a nice gesture towards ourselves to recognize our achievements and value ourselves and just as we congratulate others
Congratulate yourself for your achievements and don't wait for others to applaud you. Recognize and celebrate that you do good things.
3. Free yourself from comparisons
Uuuh this may cause conflict for many of us or maybe not, but it is no secret that we are all unique in this world. That is why we tend to get carried away sometimes because we feel that the virtues of others are better but No. So the best thing we can do is not measure your success by contrasting it with that of others. Rather, measure your success with yourself.
If today you are the best person you were yesterday, you want to tell yourself that you are moving forward.
Only you really know what you are worth and what you deserve. You do not have to accept less. Do not allow anyone to make you feel inferior or tell you what you cannot achieve.
4. Embrace your imperfections
Everyone, absolutely everyone, is a wonderful, imperfect being. Imagine for a moment how boring life would be if we were perfect!
So don't be afraid to make mistakes because they are actually learning experiences. Also, when we accept that we are not perfect, we start to love ourselves more.
Remember that loving yourself requires commitment and dedication. Don't forget to accept yourself unconditionally and that every step you take is a reminder of your worth and potential.
I usually say perfect imperfections because that is what makes us unique.
That's all #8 has been about and I hope it helped you there since it is with the only intention that I do it and write it.
Thank you very much for reading and may God bless you.
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